tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25511460714432289132024-03-18T09:48:32.651+00:00Honeypot BlogsA Lifestyle BlogHoneypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.comBlogger478125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-65090463777211368532020-08-23T10:00:00.006+01:002020-08-23T10:00:01.110+01:00Skincare update | Beauty <div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiO_0erVL9v2miINBq6dKjl8hyphenhyphenXmmKa0nai4rqpOumyv6Q19rDx2kmhyphenhyphencv_wNhjqdVDpAxihHo4S52nUtYYmyxHq8O6NvpB5NOmn37fxdOaCW56NvMxwd6krTMWLgZyNG6fcfwqbhUc6iWP/s1280/Skincare.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="1280" height="625" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiO_0erVL9v2miINBq6dKjl8hyphenhyphenXmmKa0nai4rqpOumyv6Q19rDx2kmhyphenhyphencv_wNhjqdVDpAxihHo4S52nUtYYmyxHq8O6NvpB5NOmn37fxdOaCW56NvMxwd6krTMWLgZyNG6fcfwqbhUc6iWP/w625-h625/Skincare.jpg" width="625" /></a></div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial" size="2">This post contains affiliate links</font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">Well it wouldn't quite be my blog unless I didn't do a Skincare update at some point no would it?! In the past I have spoken a lot about <a href="https://www.honeypotblogs.com/2019/05/4-product-skincare-routine-beauty.html" target="_blank"><i>streamlining the types of products</i></a> because I personally find the less I use, generally, the happier my skin is. However I feel like my understanding about "skincare" has really changed in the last 6 months because now my skin does have different needs and instead of blindly just trying random things I actually wanted to do a bit more research and lets face it, recently we've all had a lot more time on our hands. </font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">This post I am just going to highlight some key changes that I have made that I personally feel have really benefited my skin and to start with something that isn't hugely ground breaking but something I feel that everyone should do if they wear make up is the <i>double cleanse method</i>! I know it may seem pretty obvious but I just didn't realise that I would need to do another cleanse after my first. I use my favourite cleansing balm product to melt all the make up away but as soon as I started using something more moisturising and generally creamier after I had wash off the balm my face started looking much fresher. Not only does it get more make up off I found that my skin felt more hydrated after the second cleanse and over time it really does look a lot clearer and less congested. I am currently using Liz Earle cleanser for the second cleanse but I will probably swap this to something else once I have finished it. </font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhU__hLKkvWzoOqAxteRI7-I2AiUJnQKXiBqvSgPLVtUssmFh_7gGe9YYn7Rxiqo7vNE9Qkh8QWd0Zlfjcsi58ZOm1nSAXjsWCTxge4H85KSiIs_iXr3g-jJHujG7PQ5osxrCwvAiVc_JQ/s1280/Caroline+Hirons+Skincare.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="1280" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhU__hLKkvWzoOqAxteRI7-I2AiUJnQKXiBqvSgPLVtUssmFh_7gGe9YYn7Rxiqo7vNE9Qkh8QWd0Zlfjcsi58ZOm1nSAXjsWCTxge4H85KSiIs_iXr3g-jJHujG7PQ5osxrCwvAiVc_JQ/w320-h320/Caroline+Hirons+Skincare.jpg" width="320" /></a></div></div><div><br /></div><div><font face="arial">I bought <i><a href="https://fave.co/3eCyq6k" target="_blank">Caroline Hirons book Skincare</a></i>, my god! If you don't follow Caroline on Instagram but love skincare then you need to sort it out! I didn't realise I needed this book in life life quite as much as I did until it turned up. If you want a no bullsh*t, honest and understanable approach to skin care then you need this book. There is so much marketing jargon surrounding the beauty industry and it's hard to know what you should actually be buying or what your skin type even is so this book helps put it in a way that is accessible for everyone. It's also worth noting that Caroline includes products from all different price points so it doesn't feel like you have to spend excessive amounts to still get great skin! </font></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQnIBJ_TGNNQExyODE0CFXcvKfcgcopPuxUnAVwhCNaulyH7Bser5wYi0nJNh_ncl6oxSOSzb5Xmr5nHpLv0F0mE3jiAw3TKDgLDJsXXRrxk4EbAwKpgSdj6P2C6YbnYJ3h5Y6jZS30jMG/s1280/Retinol.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="1280" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQnIBJ_TGNNQExyODE0CFXcvKfcgcopPuxUnAVwhCNaulyH7Bser5wYi0nJNh_ncl6oxSOSzb5Xmr5nHpLv0F0mE3jiAw3TKDgLDJsXXRrxk4EbAwKpgSdj6P2C6YbnYJ3h5Y6jZS30jMG/w320-h320/Retinol.jpg" width="320" /></a></div></div><div><br /></div><div><font face="arial">Through reading Skincare I have swapped my product range up a little for a couple of new products, you know I may have moaned a little about my ever aging skin which causes me a little stress, not gonna lie, well now I have taken the plunge and bought <a href="https://fave.co/3fJVbGH" target="_blank"><i>Paula's Choice 1% Retinol</i></a>. Vitamin A and Retinol are scientifically proven to reverse the signs of ageing so I knew this was exactly what I needed. This product is pricey for the volume you get however, I really have noticed a difference with some of my forehead lines and texture of my face! If you don't know my skin is pretty haggard due to years upon years of acne so there's a lot of damage there which is why I wanted this type of product to just help me not look as battered. I went straight in with the 1% personally, my skin didn't react negatively to it because I have used varying acids in the past however it's always recommended that you start with a low percentage. As I am in my 30s I use this product 3 times a week in the evening and started to notice a difference after 2 weeks </font></div><div><br /></div><div><font face="arial">I also added <a href="https://fave.co/2DZQTx5" target="_blank"><i>The Ordinary Niacinamide 10% + Zinc 1%</i></a> serum into my routine, I have actually seen this type of product increase in popularity but after reading the benefits, it seemed like a great addition. Niacinamide is know to help retain water within the skin and I have quite dehydrated skin but it's also good for people who suffer with acne and whilst my acne has gone I do still get some cystic spots on my face. I tend to use this when I've not used the retinol because I don't want to use too many strong products on my face at one time! </font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">And finally, SPF! Seriously, I have thought that SPF in foundation is enough but over time I knew I needed to add something a little better and now I am using the new products mentioned it's absolutely essential! I bought <i>T</i><a href="https://fave.co/3hgBExU" target="_blank"><i>he Body Shop's Skin Defense factor 50 SPF</i></a> and it's pretty bloody good! </font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial"><i>Quick Tip - SPF goes on AFTER your moisturiser before your make up! </i></font></div><div><font face="arial"><i><br /></i></font></div><div><font face="arial">For now, I am really happy with my skincare routine but I think I may still add a facial mist, ya know for that hydration honey!!!! </font></div>Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-58992025701845332442020-08-16T10:00:00.001+01:002020-08-16T10:00:01.244+01:00House Plant Edit | Home <div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibAQ1dN601N1a2KPzrKJH45hyD49OA44VSb2AH_Xu1S0wg202gTTVgPhyphenhyphenngq9muJydSEwKC0xFa_NeXDV2Bh3dWGmxQ6v5w29i2Ddfyy9tt8RfNlBXqd2cOFEVkwPxNrtcGXSMlI64PSjE/s1080/Calathea+House+Plant.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="625" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibAQ1dN601N1a2KPzrKJH45hyD49OA44VSb2AH_Xu1S0wg202gTTVgPhyphenhyphenngq9muJydSEwKC0xFa_NeXDV2Bh3dWGmxQ6v5w29i2Ddfyy9tt8RfNlBXqd2cOFEVkwPxNrtcGXSMlI64PSjE/w625-h625/Calathea+House+Plant.jpg" width="625" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">Plants, crazy plant lady is the new "crazy cat lady" though personally I don't understand why women (interesting) have to be considered when they either love cats or plants but that's a whole other discussion I don't have the energy for. </font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">I don't know about you but during lockdown as I was spending more time on my phone I noticed that I was getting targeted by a lot of ad for plant websites and like everyone else because we were all spending so much time actually in our homes day to day getting a new plant to spruce the place up a bit became a great idea</font></div><div><br /></div><div><font face="arial">We have had random plants in the house before but they were too low to the ground which meant the pooch could nibble on it all day long, it was a nightmare so we just agreed to not buy any more. However the more plants I saw online the more I really wanted one but I just had to figure out the correct height for the planters. I actually discovered an article which linked to these gorgeous Terrazzo Plants from made.com, the measurements were perfect and not only did they look great but I personally think for two of them the price is fantastic. </font></div><div><br /></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPjKyulAx5lPjz1v8Op_UkxnIJLQyogwnKJIAzilBxWPGb6qLe42pvhFP_cQpWtGgnUcLHhWva3m12Kub1tJdy1TBb627Nk1boMQAVFrlXz3uzEcTDE1crwUe8tMOWXZa7fmfqUJSxllEo/s1280/Dracena+House+Plant.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="1280" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPjKyulAx5lPjz1v8Op_UkxnIJLQyogwnKJIAzilBxWPGb6qLe42pvhFP_cQpWtGgnUcLHhWva3m12Kub1tJdy1TBb627Nk1boMQAVFrlXz3uzEcTDE1crwUe8tMOWXZa7fmfqUJSxllEo/w400-h400/Dracena+House+Plant.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">We then had to figure out what types of plants to put in them, now me and the boyf have quite different tastes in stuff sometimes and when it comes to plants he likes to go for the more fun options so we settled on the <a href="https://www.patchplants.com/gb/en/plants/dracaena-fragrans-171/" target="_blank"><i>Dracena</i></a> for him, which is actually the same species at the one we had before. It's a plant that when I saw it in the garden centre I was a bit "meh" about but we agreed we'd each pick a plant. However when I got it home and in it's little planter I actually really started to like it and it seems to be doing well with some new leaves sprouting. </font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">The plant I wanted was a little trickier to get a hold of, I fell in love with the <a href="https://www.patchplants.com/gb/en/plants/calathea-49/" target="_blank"><i>Calathea</i></a> (lead picture), there are several different varieties of Calathea but it was this specific one I absolutely needed in my life and it turned out I wasn't the only one. This gorgeous plant kept coming into stock and then selling out by the time I wanted to buy it, I almost settled for a different plant but I am so glad I didn't because I am OBSESSED with this beautiful thing! </font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">I do still have my small peace lily but I think she isn't very happy right now, she is very small and the leaves don't look too healthy, that said I think it has been a great as a test and learn kinda plant (poor thing) because there have been times when I have clearly overwatered it, under watered it, put it in direct sunlight on my balcony (which is a no no) pruned it incorrectly and yet she still lives. It's all a learning curve, so my Calathea is a thirsty gal and needs more water than you think, I only try to do it about once a week but when I started to notice one or two leaves curling I did a quick Google search and it actually said she wasn't being watered enough. Gave her a huge watering and within a couple of hours those leaves had flattened back out and she was happy.</font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><em><font face="arial">Quick Tip: it's better for your plants to be underwatered as opposed to overwatered but the best way to find out is to physically sick you finger into the soil and if the top 1-2 inches are dry, time for a drink!</font></em></div><div><em><font face="arial"><br /></font></em></div><div><font face="arial">I only have a slight problem now, is that I want more but we live in a humble home so we don't REALLY have room for more...perhaps another one won't hurt...</font></div>Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-73136423488911667532020-08-09T10:00:00.001+01:002020-08-09T10:00:07.805+01:00Life After Lockdown | Lifestyle <div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBgkGdrEVW1vumcqIc8hbE96cCVc9iIC-eWUISI-mOmg8VU8VXiGC85yzfOZzZnR-9EV_YemlU6RytpejdefWxpwkru6jyW5orUNcFw6HFTKvk2RxanlOcC2HnQ2jd0Nw6u_Tteccchq3S/s1280/Picnic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="1280" height="781" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBgkGdrEVW1vumcqIc8hbE96cCVc9iIC-eWUISI-mOmg8VU8VXiGC85yzfOZzZnR-9EV_YemlU6RytpejdefWxpwkru6jyW5orUNcFw6HFTKvk2RxanlOcC2HnQ2jd0Nw6u_Tteccchq3S/w781-h781/Picnic.jpg" width="781" /></a></div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><font face="arial"><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div>As the ease of lockdown continues I can't help but feel a little anxious about it all. I know that I am probably in the minority of people who genuinely has enjoyed this lockdown period, there are several people who have said they have too but as soon as McDonald's or Starbucks opened they have been queuing up ever since. I don't blame them for doing something that brings them a little bit of joy during all the uncertainty but I just don't understand the big rush to go back to that life. I know I adapted a lot quicker to lockdown than most, I loved my new routine of not leaving the house at 6:40am every morning to return home at 7:30pm or 8:30pm, all of a sudden I was home and could have breakfast in the morning or take the pooch for his first walk before work, I could actually cook dinner at a normal time again.</font><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">Don't get me wrong I'm not saying that COVD-19 is a positive thing because it's not, it's heartbreaking and painful, I wish it didn't take a Pandemic to make us to look at things differently. </font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">I have probably been the most engaged with my friends, family and life in general in the last 4 months than what I have probably been in the last 3 years which definitely made me think about the changes I want to continue once lockdown is actually over...</font></div><div><div>
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- call my family more<br />
- call my friends more<br />
- spend less time in shops<br />
- spend more time with actual hobbies such as embroidery and this blog<br />
- Walk my dog more<br />
- Work from home more<br />
- Spend more time walking in nature </font></div></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">I have very real anxiety about not being able to hear the birds when life goes back and I know it's a little silly but I find it incredibly comforting when I wake up at stupid o'clock and they're all I can hear. <br /></font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">Sometimes it takes something major and dramatic to make you realise what you have been missing in your life </font></div>Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-89785464596441650042020-08-02T10:00:00.007+01:002020-08-02T10:00:00.720+01:00Loss | Lifestyle <div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><font face="arial"><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQew1K1Z-eI_ZCJMzN7QMWhlwfefhY6BXeaGn-oJAzP2NJk2EE82A0vpukYVWhFRTj3BggIuSNPBi3GTxG0zOkgZFnHuyxaxbhsEt7qB_Y5eFDqpNqHloBExh9LYE02UBjzDQG1uvHHmC4/s2048/IMG_20200724_084847_700.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQew1K1Z-eI_ZCJMzN7QMWhlwfefhY6BXeaGn-oJAzP2NJk2EE82A0vpukYVWhFRTj3BggIuSNPBi3GTxG0zOkgZFnHuyxaxbhsEt7qB_Y5eFDqpNqHloBExh9LYE02UBjzDQG1uvHHmC4/s640/IMG_20200724_084847_700.jpg" /></a></div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><br /></div>Family is a funny thing, it's complex, rarely perfect and it's different for everyone. I suppose this post is more for me than anyone else because sometimes it is hard to process the loss of a family member, especially when there are added layers to the relationship anyway. </font><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">I lost my Grandad at the age of 11, it hit me really hard, it was the first death I had experience and it pretty much shaped my teens, for years I really struggled with his loss. A few years after his death the breakdown of our relationship with my Nan (his wife) started. I'm not going to go into the details because I don't want to and I don't see the point in bringing it all up again, but we kinda became estranged from her. We would pick up on little developments in her life but contact was nonexistent. </font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">Couple of weeks ago we found out that she had actually died...in 2018, only found out because my dad checked the death register when another estranged family member could(should) have told us...</font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><font face="arial">I was surprised at how I felt about it all, while I probably hadn't spoken to my Nan in maybe 10 years, I was pretty cut up about it and I guess I still am because I'm writing a bloody blog post about it to try and process it. I did cry over it, but the reality is a part of me felt like she died all those years ago because she just wasn't in my life. Then when we found out more about how she died and all of sudden I thought about how she might have felt or what she experienced. It's difficult because internally I am battling between rational thought vs emotion</font></div><div><font face="arial"><br /></font></div><div><i><font face="arial">Rational thought : My nan hasn't been in my life for so long, she wasn't particularly the nicest person and whether she is dead or alive it has very little impact on my day to day </font></i></div><div><i><font face="arial"><br /></font></i></div><div><i><font face="arial">Emotion: I still have some wonderful memories, I spent a part of my childhood running around her garden and just being in her house and she was still my nan. </font></i></div><div><i><font face="arial"><br /></font></i></div><div><font face="arial">That's the thing about loss, the impact varies so much between each person and for me, in this case the pendulum swings wildly between rational thought and emotion. I still don't know how I feel about it all, but I think that's ok...</font></div>Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-11108999569970496422020-07-26T10:00:00.004+01:002020-07-26T10:00:09.633+01:00Life Update | Lifestyle <div><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsCFlXZmcvoFFdyTb6Jj9BxtzY8KGxDAiAwYlb5Cp0H3cBNU6brpbJK3IxzI9bRG7I_hdvH7Gkbz1vxXsLJSF2jBAsRIirB_p8Tg9q6Rsbq9i7RYb4jWnWFDKQ_NLVnqy0Apxu2nNFDQ3r/s2048/Wheat+Field.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" height="781" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsCFlXZmcvoFFdyTb6Jj9BxtzY8KGxDAiAwYlb5Cp0H3cBNU6brpbJK3IxzI9bRG7I_hdvH7Gkbz1vxXsLJSF2jBAsRIirB_p8Tg9q6Rsbq9i7RYb4jWnWFDKQ_NLVnqy0Apxu2nNFDQ3r/w781-h781/Wheat+Field.jpg" width="781" /></a></div><span style="font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px;">It's been a while since I last came on here but now feels like a good time! 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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As we tip toe into a new year, of course we all take a moment to reflect. In this day and age people like to reflect all over social media showing their highlights, mainly, all the places they've been, all the things they've achieved and with heading into a new decade people are showing 10 years worth of growth...I don't have the energy for it!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So much has changed and happened in 10 years, it's hard to look back and pinpoint the noteworthy things when really there are so many things that contribute to growth including a lot of really sh*t times, so if you think this post is going to be me talking about all the things I achieved then this isn't gonna be for you. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2019 was a weird bloody year, honestly, it was pretty damn awful at times, took me to some very dark places and then all of a sudden things got a lot better, it really was a tale of two halves. I left an incredibly toxic job and started somewhere fresh and hit the ground running, then when I had a chance to breathe I realised that it had been 6 months already and was no longer the new girl. I didn't travel as much because changing jobs and having a dog, this will change in 2020! I'm gonna get over myself and find Freddie a good dog sitter so me and the boyf can have a week or weekend away together. I finally started a new exercise routine, I joined a spin studio and bloody love it, the ease of fitting it into my routine didn't require any effort at all because it just felt right! This is another thing I will be taking into the new year. During this Christmas break, I did a little bit of decorating in the house because I felt like it's time to just try something new and you know what, I absolutely adore it. I gave up meat in 2019 and it was again, a really great and easy (ish) decision, not get me wrong I did have meat on one or two occasions some were accidental and a couple weren't but I didn't beat myself up, it happens and yep, taking that into the new year too.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I have also signed up to do a charity walk in may, London to Brighton because I really want to do something for someone else and the cause that means the most to me will always be homelessness, anything to support the charities out there that do a lot of good work. Don't get me wrong, it's not an entirely selfless act (very few are) but I am looking forward to the challenge, I want to push myself to do something and be proud of it. There were definitely some really great decisions I made last year that I will continue into the next.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2020 will be a year of doing things, travelling more, doing more for others, spending quality time with friends and family but no doubt the year will have things planned that will change the course slightly but I want to be able to adapt and not take it all so personally. I want to read more poetry, visit more art galleries and just learn more about art and culture in general. I am feeling quite optimistic about the new year because it feels fresh, I'm not going into the year with a weight hanging on my neck.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">So I am nearly 5 months into my new role and I guess I just wanted to start some things I have learned about myself since I started. I am so happy at my new place, the team are great, our clients are great, the location is great but sometimes that impostor syndrome follows you around so lets start with...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>I don't take mistakes very well</i> - we are human, we make mistakes but when I do it I don't take it so personally I almost feel physical pain. I messed up on a call and whilst it wasn't the worst thing I could have done I absolutely obsessed about it,</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Since my post on "<a href="https://www.honeypotblogs.com/2019/08/fair-weather-activists-opinion.html" target="_blank">fair weather activists</a>" I have done a lot of thinking about just how much social media has the ability to effect our mental well-being. I follow a variety of bloggers and influencers, both my Instagram and Twitter are linked to my blog and when I first started them, I went through a wave of following almost any blogger who on the surface was like me, which is basically a female blogger! I loved it, I had this little network of people who I could chat to about things that were relatable! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Fast forward 4/5 years and all of a sudden I'm finding myself increasingly disgruntled with both the platforms, I mean I lost the illusion of Instagram a long while ago but one thing I didn't do was mass unfollow. It's only since my last post that I realise I actually have control over what I want to be consuming online and if I don't like someone's opinion, I can hit unfollow and be done with it. I do think there's a danger with only following people who share the same opinions because you get a very one sided view on the world but you can definitely differentiate between someone who is an absolute moron and someone who shares the fundamentals but sees things from a different angle to you. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">In the last year or so I have found myself caring about a lot of different things, I don't eat meat anymore but all of the foodie accounts I followed were all juicy burgers and delicious meats and while there is no denying I did like meat and I did enjoy the taste, I should not be following these types of accounts, instead I should be looking for veggie or even vegan options to think about new dinners and meals for me. Honestly just by following a few new veggies accounts all of a sudden I am cooking different meals stuff I love but just didn't even think about before. I have stopped following accounts that I don't have a distinct reaction about, instead I am following account where people may give advise on eco-friendly ways of living that are useful for someone like me who is trying. I want to follow accounts I not only relate to but also can learn something from, no matter how small. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">At the start of this year I had a yearning to go back to Florence so me and the boyf decided that we should go back for my birthday. I haven't been there since I left over 3 years ago so I was excited to see what had changed, what had stayed the same and how I felt about the place! I know you're probably thinking, "<i>oh she was only there for just over a year</i>" or "<i>it hasn't been that long since I lived there</i>" but the reality is, when you move to another country, on your own, without knowing a single soul it changes your life entirely so of course, I have this emotional attachment to the place. So let's start with...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>NINE</i>. Got a degree</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TEN.</i> Learned to drive</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>ELEVEN.</i> Sang at karaoke</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TWELVE.</i> Got my nose pierced</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>THIRTEEN.</i> Cooked Christmas dinner</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>FOURTEEN</i>. Been to a festival</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>FIFTEEN.</i> Attended concerts</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>SIXTEEN.</i> Travelled on a plane alone</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>SEVENTEEN.</i> Fallen asleep on the train drunk and woken up after my stop</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>EIGHTEEN.</i> Baked a cake</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>NINETEEN.</i> Been to a football match</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TWENTY.</i> Had a perm</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TWENTY-ONE.</i> Dyed my hair red</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TWENTY-TWO</i>. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Hosted a gathering</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TWENTY-THREE</i>. Written a poem</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TWENTY-FOUR.</i> </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Owned a car</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TWENTY-FIVE</i>. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Eaten at a restaurant alone</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TWENTY-SIX.</i> I have built a piece of furniture by myself</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TWENTY-SEVEN.</i> I have walked to the top of the Duomo in Florence, Italy </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>TWENTY-EIGHT</i>. Seen a show at London Fashion Week</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>THIRTY. I bought my first piece of art</i></span><br />
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Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-43082179201368760622019-08-25T10:00:00.000+01:002019-08-25T10:00:03.865+01:00Fair Weather Activists | Opinion <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">When I first wrote this post, I wrote it from a place of frustration and I have tried to edit a little bit so it isn't so much of a judgmental rant but there are some points that I get annoyed with and I think it's perfectly fine to express that on my own blog! I was growing more irritated with social media's cultivation of what I like to call "fair weather" activists or people who just jump on the bandwagon, how i</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">t's important today but gone tomorrow and to a degree that's fine but when the cause is relate to the environment or the planet I couldn't help but get a little bitter!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">A little while ago we all became very aware of face wipes impact on the sewage systems and the impact they have just being in landfills never decomposing because facewipes are pretty much plastic, they aren't biodegradable. We then saw this huge surge of people saying they no longer use wipes/ they didn't realise the impact until they saw it on social media and this is when we are at our best, when we are sharing knowledge and educating others. It really gained momentum and even I gave up facewipes and I'm glad I have but after a while the noise died down and everyone stopped talking about it. Then I see the same people who were shocked about facewipes starting to use sheet masks which are pretty much identical in composition to facewipes - so all of a sudden the environment doesn't matter or is it just sheet masks are equally as popular on social media? (<i>Attitude much?</i>) I'll see people harp on about how important bees are and then choose to put artificial grass down which doesn't impact the bees as such but impacts all other small insects that live in the grass and, lets face it, you're just slapping down a great big piece of plastic in your garden. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">We even saw it with Pride this year, I saw so many brands update their logos to rainbow colours but how many of those companies actually donated any money to any LGBTQ+ rights? Pride is definitely more that just a rainbow but of course brands didn't want to miss out on the popularity and the visual connection to something much bigger than them</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The thing is I understand, we as consumers, live our lives for convenience, we want to do anything that makes our lives easier which is why we have created the problem ourselves (<i>with the help of supermarkets and good marketing teams</i>). I understand that when we see things so plain on social media we want to do better, we want to do good but fall back into everyday habits. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I have to still remember that adopting a </span><i style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">few smaller changes it better than doing nothing</i><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> and that it's so easy to sit on my phone and critise other people when I'm nowhere near perfect, heck they may even be people critising me for various things! </span><br />
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Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-78614003552597330512019-08-18T10:00:00.000+01:002019-08-18T10:00:11.934+01:00Making More of Free Time | Lifestyle <br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I find it very easy to get stuck in a rut, especially when I feel a little trapped with work! I easily lose all motivation and can get a little down but now I have a new job I decided I wanted to make a few changes to my free time to encourage a better work/life balance and actually make the most of my free time. Don't get me wrong, I love to do absolutely nothing sometimes but actually as I get older I realise I find more comfort in routine and a little structure so I thought I would share some ideas and tips on how I am trying to make more of my free time. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">Weekdays have always been a bit of write off for me, I get home and I just can't be bothered to do anything of any real interest. I go home, I give the pooch a quick walk, I have dinner and I might have a glass of wine in the eve and that's about it. However when it came to the weekend I didn't really know what to do with myself because I hadn't planned anything in advance. One day I just decided that I was going to <em><u>organise mine and my boyfs calendar</u></em> so that we have at least one thing each week that we will either do together or with the pooch as well. At first it's a little daunting to try and figure out what we can do with the dog as not everywhere is dog friendly but it only takes a quick phone call or email to confirm whether the places are and so far we've had a lot of luck with that. I know it can seem a little odd that I am organising free time when surely I should be impulsive and free to do whatever I want but I think when you have a little doggo you do have to plan things more.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">In June we took Fred to a Beer Festival in our home town and took him to Brighton over night. These were relatively easy things to book and schedule and we want to desensitise him a little to busy environments because we want to take him everywhere, this meant that for a couple of weekends easily had something to do. On the weeks where we weren't really doing anything at the weekend we decided to go out for dinner at places we really liked or haven't been before. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "arial";">I have found myself baking a lot more recently, I have always loved baking but sometimes found it difficult to remember to have all of the ingredients, so instead I have bought some bread mix where all you need to add is water. It's something that's really simple and you feel quite accomplished after you have already made it, you don't have to make a big deal out of finding all the correct ingredients. Baking doesn't have to be this massive thing that has to be perfect, simply making something with your own hands can give you a great sense of achievement. In fact, I normally do it on a Sunday afternoon because if I have any time to do absolutely nothing that's when it'll be. Plus I can get on with the house admin whilst the bread is proving/cooking/cooling down! Also, I quite like baking stuff to give to my parents, its a simple gesture that everyone can enjoy! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">Even spending 30 minutes at the weekend faffing with my blog feels so much better than just sitting in front of the TV in the evening. I don't think there is anything wrong is just sitting and doing nothing, but for me, for some odd reason, I just get really crabby if I feel like I have done nothing. It's also worth pointing out that sometimes, even though I have planned it, you have to change those plans! We were supposed to go into London with Fred the other weekend but it was just too hot so we didn't and because it was so hot we ended up doing nothing other than buying another damn plant for the balcony (<i>which I low key loved</i>)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-5084352401428536882019-08-11T10:00:00.000+01:002019-09-01T15:49:33.629+01:00Keeping cool in a New Build | Lifestyle<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">As I write the post we've had a bit of a heatwave and whilst I love a bit of sunshine being in a newly built property is actually almost unbearable. New Build properties are designed to be more energy efficient by keeping heat in the property, they have lowers ceilings and have "stud" walls etc. At first we really struggled to keep the place cool but now we seem to be getting out heads around it. The reality is you need to start thinking about how your apartment is when you go aboard to hot countries. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><u>Keep the windows shut</u>, <i>seriously</i>! People think if they open the windows then it will let in a breeze which is fine but when you can't create a draft or there isn't a breeze outside all you are doing is letting in the hot hair into home. I open the windows wide in the morning to let the cool air in and then just as the temperature starts to increase close them and close your curtains! It can seem a bit sad to have your home in darkness the entire day but if you want to have a cool place to retreat to when you come in then you have to make a sacrifice. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i><u>Buy a damn fan!</u></i> There are a lot of options out there ranging from really expensive Dyson fans to affordable ones from Asda, I would suggest buying a tall one though because then you do have to clear any surfaces or sides and you can keep it anywhere!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><u><i>Avoid oven usage!</i> </u>This only really applies if you live in an open plan area with your living room and kitchen like us. Honestly, we've really had to rethink some of the meals we cook on a weekend just because if it involves and oven it's best to avoid! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Today I thought I would share with you guys the contents of my bag now that I have a doggo, obviously I still have a normal handbag but as we are trying to take Fred to more places with us I always want to make sure I have enough stuff. Quite often we need to make sure we have things that can we can distract him with if he is getting a bit restless. In all honesty, I never thought I would need to carry things around with us, my parents have a Chocolate Labrador and they don't really need to carry extra items with us because he is a pretty relaxed dog and will happily sit next to my dad, so I think breed has a lot to do with it. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Freddie is a French Bulldog and they can be known to have a few health problems, one is definitely getting overheated, heat stroke can be fatal in some cases so we always make sure we carry some water and a bowl for him. To be honest, I would say that Freddie is quite a healthy dog, we keep him lean and he is very active but we know that because of his snorter snout it can restrict the it getting into his nose and therefore his ability to cool himself down. Even if the weather isn't too hot, I think it's still worth us carrying the water on long journeys. I use a simple water bottle that I picked up from Asda that keeps cool water cool. I am looking at getting a collapsible bowl but for now this one works fine. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I opted for a rucksack because it meant that I can carry all the goodies and still have both hands free to hold his lead or pick his poop up! Also I feel that you can actually get quite a lot of stuff in a rucksack which is handy! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I carry around A LOT of treats in that little orange container <i>(classic Ikea) </i>the main reason we carry them in a container is to keep them fresh but another reason is because I can't stand dog biscuit crumbs everywhere, I know <i>how dramatic</i> of me, but they get everywhere and some dog treats really smell so I would rather not have them rolling around the bag.Of course no dog owner would be complete without numerous poo bags, I have shown one here but in all honesty I carry about 10 with me because you just never know! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Then finally we have a couple of toys with us, Freddie can be a bit obsessed with a tennis ball so it keeps him quite if he is getting a little moany! But as with most dogs they get bored of just one toy so it's always good to carry an extra one! </span><br />
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Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-31835518834592755672019-07-28T10:00:00.000+01:002019-07-28T10:00:02.491+01:00The Old Ship Hotel, Brighton | Dog Friendly<br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Today I wanted to share my first experience of staying in a hotel with our little Fred because we've never actually spent any real time away from our home but we wanted to try a trip away in the hope that over time Fred would get used to it. At first I really struggled to find a hotel at a reasonable price to have your dog stay because I didn't realise at the time that hotels always charge extra and some charge in excess of £25 for one night which I thought was a little obscene however <a href="https://www.thecairncollection.co.uk/hotels/brighton/the-old-ship/" target="_blank">The Old Ship Hotel</a> only charged £12.50 which is reasonable. I'm going to be honest about the hotel because I feel like sometimes it's really hard to find the right hotel when you have a dog so I would rather this post be helpful as opposed to just being a positive review, <i>I obviously haven't been paid to write this,</i> just putting it out there in case anyone has any suspicions. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">There is no shadow of a doubt that this is a dog friendly hotel! When I walked in every member of staff wanted to stroke or play with Fred, we felt so welcome even down to the detail of having a jar of dog biscuits next to the jar of mints for the humans! Everyone was smiling and helpful, the foyer was clean and inviting it actually had a very luxurious feel to it and there was a wedding going on so that should give you a little idea of what the first impressions were like. We booked through Booking.com where I make all of my bookings and the only disappointing thing was that we couldn't check in until 3pm which feels a little later than I would have expected at most hotels but they were fine in letting us just wait around until the room was free. Also, the location is honestly so perfect, it's very close to Brighton pier and right on the seafront! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">For me, this is where things start going down hill a little, as you can see the room is fine the decor may be slightly outdated but on the surface I was really happy with it until I started to look a little closer. The first thing I noticed were the carpet stains, I understand that we were in a dog room so of course it's not going to the top tier but it did put me off a little. I know dogs have accidents (<i>ours didn't</i>) but when you sit down and notice the vast amount it was a little disappointing. Also, the sink had a giant crack in it and the chairs had a layer of dust at the back which again was off putting. One nice touch though was that they had put a little dog bed and water bowl in the room which again highlights that dogs are very welcome additions. The room was obscenely hot because of the weather and the fact they left the heated towel rail on but they had a tall stand up fan so that was great! Fred did not like the room at all, it was probably just because it was somewhere new but it was so hot he really struggled to settle down.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">No! This is purely because of the price, the cost of this room was £198 (includes £12.50 dog fee) for one night!! Unfortunately there is no way the quality of the room was worth that cost. I completely understand an appreciate that we would be put in a room of that condition because we have a dog, they are hardly going to place us in a premium room when there's a chance our dog could ruin it but it felt very much like a room that they didn't mind if it did get ruined, <i>if that makes sense</i>? If I was basing my stay purely one the customer service and welcome then I would definitely stay again in a heartbeat and I would probably even stay again if the room was around the £130 (excluding dog fee) mark because the location is good but for me the room doesn't warrant the price tag! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: arial;">So there we have my little mini review of the hotel, I think in future I would probably opt for an AirBnB because I think Fred would settle a little easier and because we wouldn't have to worry if Fred did bark but also because it would feel like we would have a more comfortable stay and not feel like we are given a below par room just because we have a dog! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I don't quite know what's happened to me this year but all of a sudden I really care about lots of things, it could be social media making me aware, it could also be old age. I just feel like I <i>need</i> to be doing better, well everyone needs to do better but the only thing I can really control is myself. There are a lot of programmes out there like War on Plastic which is fantastic but you can get a little overwhelmed with the info they give so I thought I would share some easier to digest tips to help the environment .</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">The problem is, we as a society do a lot of damaging things to the environment due to <i>convenience</i>, the way we shop has never been more easier than what it is now. I think the supermarkets have a massive part to play, they waste an obscene amount of plastic and they are charging more money for unpackaged items/ plastic free than the ones in plastic wrap, of course everyone is going to purchase whichever is the cheapest.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">Also, it's worth pointing out that I know there are circumstances where not everyone can give up single use plastics, they may have disabilities and illnesses whereby they need convenient products, I have no problem whatsoever with this and do not think we should demonise everyone for using products that actually make their quality of life better. My issue is there are the people like myself who don't have any excuses to not try at least to make small changes. We've done so much irreversible damage already, I just don't want to continue to make it worse. I'm not perfect, I am definitely still wasteful but I am <u>trying</u> and that's the most important thing right? <em>Hopefully!</em> </span>Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-12118228351073221562019-07-14T10:00:00.001+01:002019-07-14T10:00:01.496+01:00Stranger Things 3 | Opinion <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Never on my blog have I written about a TV series, it isn't my style but after watching Stranger Things 3 I just have a lot of feelings and thought why they hell not?! I have to point out that this blog post will contain spoilers so if you haven't quite finished yet just skip this post...you have been warned. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I'm going to tell you straight that I found this season really disappointing, for various reasons, but i'm going to start with the feel of the series from episode 1! Stranger Things 3 started full of colour and laughter, there was this comedic tone throughout at least the first 4 episodes and I'm not a complete troll like some parts were amusing, my issue is the way they dumbed some of the characters down like Hopper! I'm sorry but this one really annoyed me, Hopper was a fantastic character, he was gritty, grumpy but had a heart however in this season he was a bumbling fool who comes across as desperate to date Joyce and obsessed with El dating Mike, his character actually became quite embarrassing which is why I am happy they killed him off, I wouldn't want to see him decline any further, but is he really dead? Also, poor Will they made him look quite pathetic didn't they? </span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">I felt like there were two many storylines running through this season when all I really wanted was the core gang to come together and just sort the mindflayer out! Instead we had to watch drama with El and Mike, Hopper and Joyce, Nancy </span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">and</span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"> Johnathan, Billy and mike's mum, Steve and his almost love interest, though that one changed by the end of it, the main undertone was just about love interests which is fine and I get it but the reason I watch stranger things is for the the strange thing not normal life!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I also found the idea of having Russians working underneath a shopping mall a little too far fetched for me, give me mindflayers and I can get my head around that but why Russians, why are they opening the gate, why under a <u>shopping</u> mall? Also, why did Steve and this new gang break into the Russian lair and manage to escape? It's a step too far for me! And I know how ridiculous that sounds because it's Stranger Things and the whole concept is made up anyway. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">We knew this season had a lot more money thrown at it because we knew about all of the collaborations with different brands and for the most part I think it was quite subtle but the Coke ad in episode 7...oh my god, too much! The problem was it felt like an ad.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I just have to bring up the Dustin and Suzie singing thing which was f*cking cringe but the concept was fine and if he just mumble sang into the walkie-talkie then that would have been funny and not detract too much from the storyline but oh no, they had to make it into this big duet with a split screen...while the mindflayer is literally on the gang! WTF!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">There were moments of brilliance though and I cannot deny how great the graphics were this season, I was hooked with gaping mouth as I watch El and Billy meet in the upside down! Actually, all of the Billy scenes were brilliant and not just because he is obscenely handsome! Watching Nancy and Johnathan being hunted in hospital had my pulse racing! Even the character development of Murray I really bloody liked, he was a great addition. To be fair, all of the female characters were pretty badass! These were all really great parts and I wish we had more of them, I wish I was on the edge of my seat throughout the whole thing but I just wasn't, it didn't have the same darkness it had before! The season only really started for me from episode 5 which in an 8 part series is a little too late but of course I will watch the next season! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">We moved into our first home just over a year ago now, I've written a few posts about it but some of you may not know is that our home is actually a Coach House so it's basically somewhere between a flat and a house. We have the entire property, we don't have anyone either side or above us but we have car ports directly underneath the property meaning everything is on first level as opposed to ground level!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The only downside to our home in my opinion is that we don't have a garden and this may some as a bit of a surprise to you but I actually really love plants and a little bit of gardening! A plus side however is that we do have a little balcony which has meant that I've had to get a little creative with my plants! I wanted to share some tips in case someone else was in a similar situation and didn't quite know where to begin.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">Firstly, I think one of the most important things to consider is <em><u>how much sun your balcony area gets during the day</u>. </em>I say this because our balcony is in sunshine literally all day which means we can't really go for plants that need shaded areas because they simply won't thrive where they are! In recent months I have opted for Snapdragons because they love direct sunlight so I know with proper care (lots of watering they should be pretty happy)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">Think about the type of plants you buy, whether they are going to be <em><u>low maintenance</u></em> or require a bit of time and training (<i>trailing plants for example</i>). I bought a Lavender bush, for a few reasons really one being bumble bees however I realised that Lavender is actually a pretty hardy plant and quite low maintenance in the sense that there was time I forgot to water the thing and this year he has come back really happy and healthy so far!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The primroses in the first picture died on us so quickly it was really disappointing but I knew this would happen because it said they would only flower until May so it's pretty important to <em><u>check the blossom months</u></em> if you want to have pretty flowers. In fact, it wasn't just that the flowers dropped of the plants actually died so I'm not sure they were too happy where they were so we decided to plant some Snapdragons in their place and they are thriving! </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">If you want to keep your flowers looking fresh then <em><u>pruning is really important</u></em>, some plants only need the dead petals to be removed and that's really simple, a gentle tug and you're done! Whereas my lavender, I literally don't touch until late summer when the flowers have died then I trim the lavender stems right back! If you don't know how to prune certain things then there are loads on online tutorials or ask some family members if they are into gardening. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I'm lucky because I know exactly what types of flowers I want and it's just from past experience and other people's gardens that I do know what they are called but I think if you're struggling to know what you may like then <em><u>pre-made planters</u></em> might be a great option. We stumbled across ours in Homebase and it was just full of different types of beautiful flowers and it just looked great, the bees love it! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">I think it doesn't matter how big your area is outside, having little bursts of colours around it can't help but make you smile and the bees will thank you for sure. </span>Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-41337425383048429212019-06-30T10:00:00.000+01:002019-06-30T10:00:02.198+01:00Interview Preparation | Lifestyle<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">If you read my post the other week on handling <a href="https://www.honeypotblogs.com/2019/06/dealing-with-rejection-when-job-hunting.html" target="_blank">rejection from job interviews</a> then you will know I have been on the hunt for a new role and it has been a ROLLERCOASTER of emotions but now I have managed to get myself a lovely new job <em>(thank god). </em>During the interview process I notice how much the landscape had changed and thought I would share with you guys some tips/things to be aware of.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><strong>Questions</strong> - In the many months of interviewing it took me to find a job this was one area I actually got a lot better at. There are many things I like to ask but the two that I think you get the most honesty from are "<em>What are the biggest challenges you face as a company</em>" and "<em>How do you measure success for the person in this role</em>". The first question gives you an insight into where potential struggles could arise in the future but also how well the person knows their business. The second question gives you an understanding as to what the expectations will be of you, whether it's purely about client retention or whether you'll be measured by the revenue your digital channel drives. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";"><strong>Rejection </strong>- I don't want to say you should be prepared to not get the job because it will put you in the wrong frame of mind when going for the interview but I guess it's more about understanding that rejection <em>can</em> be a part of the process. Wouldn't it be amazing if we all got the job we interviewed for first? But that's just unrealistic.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">For me, I think the best interviews are always going to be face to face with a person you can get a vibe from, sometimes you instantly thing "<em>I can work for that guy</em>" and if I feel that then I am far more likely to go for that role if offered. You have to go with your gut, know what you want and what your limitations are, don't just accept a role because they have offered be sure that they are giving you what you really want, whether it be salary, responsibilities or work/life balance. </span>Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-84921242063511649552019-06-23T10:00:00.000+01:002019-06-23T10:00:01.939+01:005 things Since Re-launching my Blog | Blogging <br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><u>No one reads it</u> - <em>Facts are facts! </em>I mean, in all honesty I've always had a teeny tiny readership so I wasn't expecting much when I did relaunch again but in all honesty, no one cares and no one is reading! There's a part of me that's a little sad about it but actually in some respects it's nice to have a hobby and write about anything I want to!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><u>I am lazy at promoting it</u> - literally so lazy! For about a month and a half I just didn't schedule any tweets at all telling people I was writing new content, the thing is I got so out of the routine of the whole blogging space that I forgot entirely that I had to promote that damn thing. Not gonna lie, that <em>might be some</em> of the reason why no one is reading this little corner of the internet!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial";"><u>Lucky that I wrote loads of content before launching it</u> - I launched with 8 weeks worth of posts (only one a week, so 8 posts) and once I relaunched and had all those pieces scheduled I literally didn't log back into Blogger again for at least a month, so if I didn't have the content ready and waiting I very much would have had a gap and then the posts would have felt forced and it would have been a hot mess! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><u>Enjoying the freedom of writing whatever I want</u> - I eluded to this in the first point but since no one is reading my damn blog anyway, it's actually quite freeing to not have any expectations or constraints into what I write! Now, I know I'm hardly writing about anything ground breaking but I would never have written about <a href="https://www.honeypotblogs.com/2019/04/why-real-fur-has-become-mainstream.html" target="_blank"><strong>fur becoming mainstream</strong></a> or <a href="https://www.honeypotblogs.com/2019/04/is-it-possible-to-separate-art-from.html" target="_blank"><strong>separating the art from the artist</strong></a> or even <a href="https://www.honeypotblogs.com/2019/04/going-meat-free-lifestyle.html" target="_blank"><strong>why I gave up meat</strong></a> so I'm happy that I do now! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">So even though the relaunch has been a little meh in terms of readership and I have definitely taken my sweet time to get back into the routine the main thing is I am still pretty positive about my blog and I'm happy I started again. I think when you take a break from blogging it's easy to think "oh why should I bother" but it's about identifying your objectives. Are you blogging because you want to be seen? If so, have your shit together before you start and make sure you scream about it from everywhere! Are you blogging because you just want to write again? If so, then just do it! It doesn't matter whether you have a consistent routine or think you're writing about nothing, do it for you! </span></div>
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Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-43505724195092527092019-06-16T10:00:00.000+01:002019-06-16T10:00:02.469+01:00Self improvement | Lifestyle <div dir="ltr">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The first thing you should know about me is that I love my career and the industry I have chosen, it has taken me all over the world, I have spoken on a panel at an event, I have lived in another country, I love it! Recently work changed and I wrote a post highlighting that I was looking for something new because things got pretty bad. The thing is I didn't quite realise just what sort of impact this was having mentally and I realised things really needed to change, I needed to switch my brain back on again! I met up with a friend who I used to work with and she made me think about my own wellbeing and that I should start thinking of self improvement and invest more in myself, this was a little eye opening I must admit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The hardest part for me was deciding where to start, there were so many areas of myself I was utterly miserable with so which one should I begin with? After a while I thought the thing that made most sense was <u><i>starting my blog back up</i></u>, I mean I pretty much had a year out and no wonder I felt like my brain was decaying, it was because I lost my hobby/interest! Instead of thinking about something new to write, I just locked it away and just said "I'm uninspired, I can't write" which is true but the only way to get inspired is to bloody do something, to write words down, to go out on a walk to do small little things and just get the brain working again! I think I didn't really like my blog for a while but now I feel like I am at a bit of a turning point and I hope to keep this blog as more of a personal space to write my thoughts down and not just a review site </span><em style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">(nothing wrong with a review blog though).</em></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Another thing I started doing is <u><i>any form of exercise</i></u> whether it's going for a walk or a 10 minute workout videos on days where I was feeling very sloth like I found doing something made me feel a lot better. I didn't really wanna join a gym because I worried about how to fit it into my life. I get up early enough as it is and get home pretty late, did I really want to limit my time even more with Chris and the pooch during the week? Definitely not! I started to change my thought process and understand that I can and should be doing some form of activity <em>(before anyone starts, I'm speaking from an "abled" perspective, I understand that not everyone can be active for 10 minutes and that "active" is different for different people)</em> I know for a fact I could easily fit 10 minutes in my day to start with.<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> I'm also fortunate because we have a dog and he will always be up for going on a walk even if it's just around the streets! </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">You may have seen my post about <a href="https://www.honeypotblogs.com/2019/03/short-stories-books.html" target="_blank">Short Stories</a> and it's really changed my reading habits, I find myself picking my kindle up far more these days, than what I did before so much so I have actually stopped listening to music on my commute. I have no problem with people walking around in headphones but the issue is some become so isolated that they completely forget what's going on around them, in fact I could write a whole other post on that so let's stop there! I find if I am reading on my commute it makes me feel more relaxed and just a little more focused in general because the genre I choose to read always leaves me guessing which I think is a good think to keep the brain ticking over.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">I think <u><i>quality time with myself</i></u> is another thing I have completely given up, it's a easy as having a bath with a bit of music and a glass of wine, it's having a train journey to somewhere else, I actually really like spending time on my own and it's something that I should do more often! Even if it's just grabbing a coffee after I get my nails done instead of rushing straight back home, just a bit of time to faff! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">One really small but actually quite important thing I have recently started to do is <u><i>take a damn vitamin!</i></u> I know for a fact that I do not eat enough veggies, I eat more now since going <a href="https://www.honeypotblogs.com/2019/04/going-meat-free-lifestyle.html" target="_blank">meat free</a> but I know it's not quite <i>enough </i>so to try and change that a little I have started to have a Berocca in the morning or if I miss that I will have a vitamin b complex tablet to just try and keep my energy levels up!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">These are the absolute basics but the problem was I wasn't even doing the basic things so it comes as no surprise that I was feeling so crap! I know it sounds so simple but in all honesty it is very small changes that make a difference or could lead onto bigger changes. The thing I have to remind myself of is that self improvement is a constant thing, it's something that needs to evolve with me as I grow and change.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Getting a new job is bloody hard guys isn't it? If you're anything like me then even whittling it down to the places you'd want to work is tough enough and then you have to actually go through the interview process. I have seen it too often where people jump into roles because they are simply fed up of their current situation but they often end up not as happy as they thought they would be because the industry is still the same regardless of company. I only apply for job that I genuinely think I would love to do which means I'm a little fussier than most but I don't think that's a bad thing as such. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I recently went for my dream job, it was somewhere I really respected, somewhere I have wanted to work for such a long time and it was a role I had no shred of doubt I could 100% do and do it well in fact. I didn't get the job, 3 interviews including one presentation the whole process dragged on for over a month with very little updates and little information. The whole thing was am emotional rollercoaster and I was devastated when I didn't get the job but the honest truth is I wasn't good enough and there was someone better. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Unfortunately recently this seemed to be a common theme with my job opportunites, someone is better or I'm just not what they are looking for! It's not even that I have a bad CV because it does get me through the door, in fact it gets me through the door and then I get to the final stage and for a variety of reasons I just don't get the job. I'm not going to sit here and say that I'm perfect, another role I went for I completely messed up because nerves got the better of me, it was a video call and I got distracted by little things the interviewers were doing and I know I didn't answer many things right, I knew as soon as I put the phone down that I had messed up. When the recruiter confirmed my suspicions, I cried like a bloody baby, I mean don't get me wrong I kept composure whilst in the office but I had to go to the bathroom a couple of times to just have a cry because not getting a job you have invested so much time into is soul destroying! Sometimes it's not even just the fact you didn't get the job, sometimes it's the thought of not being able to leave the job you're so miserable in which is the hardest part. Then the feedback comes and you end up feeling really pissed off because some of their reasons you don't agree with or they are "stock" answers which shows how little they know you, an excuse basically. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">In all honesty, I didn't handle rejection very well it had the biggest impact on me and I just didn't know how to make it better, the one thing <em>I didn't do was give up</em>. I still kept checking every day, I didn't apply everyday because otherwise I could end up with something I really didn't even want but <em>I kept looking</em>. I also didn't quit my job, now there seems to be a narrative online where people tell others "<em>you more of what makes you happy</em>", "<em>don't do something if it's bad for your health</em>", "<em>I quit my job and look how happy I am</em>" but unfortunately none of those things will pay your damn bills but unless you are in a very privileged position to do that, it isn't realistic. I knew I would get a job eventually but I just had to continue on and keep my head down to get through each day but I have to admit it definitely felt like I wouldn't find anything at times. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I used to watch a hell of a lot of YouTube videos, I mean hours upon hours a day just consuming the video content of the big YouTubers and I used to really love watching little snippets of peoples lives or the odd make up tutorial here and there however all of a sudden I just stopped watching them. It was literally like a switch, one minute I am rushing to the channels to see the latest upload and the next I literally could not give a shit and then it hit me, I no longer found these YouTubers, relatable, aspirational nor inspirational. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I know a lot of people have been feeling this sort of way with some of the really big YouTubers and I just want to stress before someone labels me as <em>"jealous"</em> - I think it's incredible that people can make vast amounts of money from their channels, that alone could be considered aspirational and I would totally understand but that type of content doesn't interest <u>me</u>, I like to see normal people with normal lives, not people buying Gucci every damn week. I like honest, funny content, not fake smiles and perfect angles.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I used to watch a fair amount of Zoella videos, in an almost guilty pleasure kinda way because I felt a lot of her content was probably more tailored to school girls and I am a quite a bit older than that but I still watched them. I came to really enjoy her vlogs and her Christmas content because there was a real personality behind it. That said, I have never and probably would never buy any of her products because the brand doesn't resonate with me. When she moved into her new house, I watched the first few vlogs more from a voyeuristic point of view and then the content just seemed to stagnate, yes her house is stunning and you're damn right <em>she deserves to show it off and be happy in a space she has worked hard for</em> but when did it become just about the money? She released an advent calendar, which was obscenely priced and then uploaded an apology video because of the backlash which was possibly the most insincere thing I have ever watched which shows how out of touch she is from her audiences - the girl knew exactly what the price of the calendar would be because she would have been aware of the profit she would make from each sale, so let's not go there. Her boyf is even more problematic with the amount of wasteful things he spends his money on, and yes, it could be argued that it's his money so therefore he can use it however he sees fit but it's the culture he is breeding that concerns me a little more. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Lets be honest, those guys are incredibly easy targets but it's not just these influencers who have lost touch with their audiences it's also the ones who aren't relatable. Some style influencers I have loved for the longest time but sometimes as you see their content evolve and become even more beautiful and even more creative which lead me to feel a little disconnected because I no longer felt like their content was relevant to me, it's for people who can spend obscene amount of money on fashion and travel the world, I just can't. I think sometimes you personally change as an individual which means the type of content you want to see will inevitably change as well, which isn't a bad thing at all. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I don't watch a lot of big beauty gurus anymore because they don't talk about cruelty free brands but insist on promoting brands just because they get shit tone of stuff for free - which I understand but I'm not interested. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I think my tastes have definitely changed in the content I want to see, I no longer want to see heavily curated content, I want to see content that means something, that is showing me something good or giving a true opinion, I would love to see content that makes a damn difference without being told I should buy this or use this code.</span>Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-73722508696729706722019-05-26T10:00:00.000+01:002019-05-26T10:00:16.391+01:00Personal touches to our Home | Lifestyle<div dir="ltr">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Let me first start by saying that I bloody love our home, it's perfect for us right now and we are so lucky that it's a new build and doesn't need anything done with it! By new build I literally mean it's a newly built house but they are the homes that are super energy efficient and have a lot of stud walls, if you have ever visited or bought one you will know they are a wonderful blank canvas. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I was so excited when we got the keys I just wanted everything in ASAP and some of my decor choices were "that'll do" as opposed to "I love it, let's buy it". Having been here for nearly a year now, I am starting to look around and just feel a bit meh about some of our house bits and it all started with a trip to Homesense because we saw a lovely lamp and I though that style would be perfect in our house and it would replace a lamp which at the time I liked but now I feel nothing about it. The lamp we picked is the <a href="https://www.homebase.co.uk/tintin-floor-lamp-black_p395564" target="_blank">Tintin Floor Lamp</a> from Homebase and was only £50, it's very sleek but the thing I love most about it is the pattern it creates on the wall when it's switched on, this adds another dimension other than just being for light, it almost creates a textured look.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I was targeted online by <a href="https://inkanddrop.com/" target="_blank">Ink and Drop</a> via Instagram and absolutely fell head over heals in love with <a href="https://inkanddrop.com/product/gold-skull-marble-print/" target="_blank">this skull print</a> I thought the contrast of the black marble and golden skull would look very dramatic against a white wall.I hark back to my greebo (colloquialism?) / Goth days where I really loved skulls but the truth is I always have, for example Alexander McQueen is my absolute favourite designer and,of course, skulls played a massive part in his designs so I feel like they have always resonated with me on some level.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I recently fell in love with a little <a href="https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/AthinaPhotography" target="_blank">Florentine picture of the Duomo</a> and thought it would fill up a little space that I wouldn't normally have hung anything there. However the original place I wanted to put it I discovered we couldn't because there were wires basically everywhere so we had to place it somewhere else. I think the reason I like this picture so much, aside from the fact I lived in Florence it's more the combination of the Duomo with the normal flats surrounding it, it's the simplicity and beauty of Florence that was always on your doorstep. Plus the little green shutters reminded me of my flat while I was there. </span><br />
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Honeypot Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04465732675670051683noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2551146071443228913.post-51104867640606465572019-05-19T10:00:00.001+01:002019-05-19T10:00:07.137+01:005 Things about getting a puppy | Lifestyle<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I haven't mentioned it on my blog, mainly because I haven't blogged, but I got a puppy in July last year!! As you can see, he is a gorgeous French Bulldog called Freddie and since getting him my life has changed quite a lot, for obvious reasons. I wanted to write a post just highlighting some of the ways having a dog/puppy had really changed our lives and habits. It's worth just pointing out that this is just my experience and there are so many factors to consider such as breed, age of dog, house environment etc! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">For as long as me and Chris have been together we have always talked about French bulldogs, we absolutely love them but we also done a lot of research before getting them to understand the numerous health problems Frenchies <i>could</i> have. Originally we did want to adopt a rescue dog but we had concerns because we didn't have a garden (we live in a coach house) and</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> we would have to adapt ourselves to the dogs needs which could have been quite difficult, so we decided that getting a puppy would be a better option because we could influence the dog's schedule in a better way to suit our lifestyles. Frenchies are known for being dogs that like apartment living, the require less exercise so a garden isn't essential and they like company (Chris works from home) so this breed seemed to tick a lot of boxes for us. I have grown up with dogs so knew a lot about them but it's very different when you get your own and I think it was a bit of a shock to the system for me but I wouldn't have it any other way! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>They bring you unconditional love</b> - My god, this dog loves a cuddle and a snuggle! He loves a little snoozy cuddle in the morning after he has had his first morning walk and he will literally grumble until you sit down so he can sit on you! The way he runs down the stairs when you come in, sniffing all my clothes and bags to see where I have been. Sometimes Chris will go out and it'll just be me and Fred and it's really lovely because it isn't lonely at all, especially when you have him snoring next to you on the sofa! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>You worry about them all the time</b> - This is a major one for me that I am trying to get over but honestly, I worry about what he eats, how much he exercises, whether he is getting too hot, whether he needs to pee, whether he is warm enough, have I played with him enough, how long he has been in his crate for? I didn't realise how much my thoughts would be consumed by Freddie but it's all a learning curve. You start to realise that dogs needs are actually quite basic and they are very resilient animals, I would even go as far to say as this pooch is spoiled. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Training takes time </b>- Toilet training and teething are by far the hardest things to deal with when you have a puppy. We have been quite lucky in the sense that Freddie picked up on toilet training quite quickly but there were SO many accidents, sometimes they were our fault because we didn't notice him giving us the signs to go out and other times it was him being a little sod and doing it for attention. Now he lets us know if he wants to go out by walking down the stairs and sitting by the front door or by trying to get our attention to leading us to the front door, he is quite a clever little thing. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Teething is another thing which I personally find very hard, don't get me wrong I have seen the damage other puppies have done and Freddie is nowhere near as bad as that but he has ruined a few things, more specifically our bed. We have a wooden IKEA bed which I loved, it was brand new when we moved in and Freddie for some reason took a liking to crawling underneath it and chewing the inside bed legs! This really, really drove me insane, I do like nice things and I am fussy so when I see something I love being destroyed it almost pains me (<i>dramatic much?</i>) We tried a lot of different things to get him to stop but it almost became a habit to get attention, so fortunately we found a bitter apple spray and it stopped him immediately. People assume that a puppy should be fully trained at 7 months and it's just unrealistic, it takes a lot of time and there will be numerous little slip ups, they are animals after all. </span><br />
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